How to Overcome "BREAK-UP"!!! How much time it takes to become normal again !

Most of us today are'nt that lucky in terms of love and do have a "Break-Up"  in the relationship. With our marrigeable ages extended, we do seek companionship in between which usually is not the one that ends up in a mariage/ permanent relationship.

Getting over  a relationship can be very tiring and hurting... and it turns your world upside down , and you even loose the desire to live , recent episode of Bollywoood actress Jiah Khan committing suicide after break uup confirms this pain.So, i thought why not write and share with a few people this issue , its impact on life, effects and may be ways to overcome the 'Break-Up'

This is something i read and experienced with my roomate and am writing with his help.I shall write in points affects , impacts of break up .

1.  After initial Break-Up , you would  stop eating , and sleeping.
2. You would cry a lot and at random, sitting alone or in company , it wil be difficult to hide those pain filled eyes and they will roll down your cheeks.
3. If you are a boy/man , Tears don't make that distinction ,they will not stop for you too, so don't feel strange , you are'nt the first one to feel so.
4. You would stop talking with people around, sitting alone would make you sad but with people around you would feel more disgusted.
5. You would make unlimited calls / sms /fb /wats app to her , but she won't reply...
6. You would listen to sad songs and all stories you would  feel reflect your own.
7. You would beg her/him to return , no matter how big you are, but pain would make you do that.
8. You would wish to die/ want that death comes tomorrow but God won't be kind to you , not then not now...

Now , Listing How all this would/will be overcomed .

1. Time is the Greatest Healer.So give this pain time , it will subside , even if scars remain , pain will go.
2. Food: my guess is 13-15 days , you should start eating and by end of 1 month , your diet should return to normal.
3. In 15-20 days you should get over the guilt factor and start smiling a bit like before .
4. In 1 month , you can start hitting on girls again.You  can also try to get sympathy from girls by telling your story, girls as you know like emotional talking boys.
5. That suicide instinct would subside a little but you may still feeel your life useless now , so dying won't be one of things that would scare you.
6. You would not forget her/him and infact as you start talking with people around , the nicknames you gave out of love would start crossing your way reminding you of her/him more .
7. You would be tempted to use same nickname during flirting , butt your moralistic heart would resist you from doing it, coz she/ he is the only one you love still.
8. Listen to sad songs , yes they do make you sad but you happen to see your story thorugh them , they help in healing too.
9. write blog/ online , even make a new email id dedicated to your relationship and send messages to that email detailing how painful liife has become. Outpouring of pain/grief is also necessary.
10. During Bathing...Now this is a crucial time during the day when you feel lonely and remember her/him a lot , so start playing music a little load on your phone and avoid being lonely , even sing along .
11. Break-Up happens coz someone did something wrong between the two of you or even both , so don't expect it to happen in a happy way. You will separate after a fight and  it will be a bad fight .
12. You will remember her/him somedays more than others , and you may cry , thats ok , don't be alarmed.Itspart of healing process.
13. Get married as soon as you can.You need a companion to share this hard life .Its easier to die than to live.
14. Indulge yourself in your career , try and divert your energies may be for her/him but make use of this pain and do something good of your life .

And Finally, You cannot hate someone you loved , if you loved her truely....Love remains , always we move on !!  TRUE LOVE REMAINS...........

 

SALARY OF SCALE-1 , PROBATIONARY OFFICER IN STATE BANK OF PATIALA , SALARY SLIP INCLUDED

So, I Got my First Pay as an Officer of State Bank of Patiala . I am a Probationary Officers (JMG-1) , which is a Scale-1 Post in all Public sector banks.
Sharing below is Image of the Salary Details of Scale -1 officer as on 26/07/2012.
Basic Pay of Scale -1 Officer starts from Rs 14,500/-

Notings:

1) As joining was on 2nd July'2012. So Basic has been calculated as Rs 14032.26 and not Rs 14500/- . So a little increase in the net pay is expected. (about Rs 600+)

2)Apart from this an officer gets a few other benefits like

• Newspaper /magazine Charges Rs 450/pm.
• Petrol charges ----  Rs 1240 minimum ( exact will be updated soon)
• Late Sitting Charges Rs 2000/ month
• Some Annual perks are also provided after one year or in between as per request by officer/rules permitted...But these are not included in monthly salaries.

*CCA - It means City Conveyance Allowances

Samsung Mobile Phones @ 10% Off. From IndiaPlaza.com

Ok, So Indiaplaza.com  offering 10% off on Samsung Mobile Phones.
I got the Coupon through an email. So sharing with you here.

 

You have to use Coupon Code : MOB10OFF 

Click Here for  the Link to the Samsung Mobile Section and Click Here for Entire Mobile Phone section.

Well, Kindly Check rates on other websites too and and see if the coupon makes a difference to the rates.
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CWE PO Cracked - Part-2 (Observations Based on SBI Results)

State Bank of India has releasedd the details of scores of candidates in SBI Associate Exam held on 07-08-2011.
Based on this and also on score of SBI PO- 2011 (held on 24-07-2011) , I have concluded some points which only verifies my observations on this PO exam system which i have been trying to study and break its code.

The general observations , as can be drawn from previous exams too are :

1) 44-47% scores are required in 1st stage of objective paper to clear these PO Exams.

2) For Final Selections 52-55% scores are comfortable scores and you can expect selection.

3) Targetting atleast Two sections is a must for clearing the overall cut-off. Scoring about 70%+ in atleast Two sections and clearing cut-offfs in remaining two is a good strategy.

4) Difficultly Level or No. of Candidates or even The Number of seats DOES NOT AFFECT THE OVERALL AND/OR SECTIONAL  CUT-OFFS GREATLY...THEY REMAIN ALMOST CONSTANT WITH +-2% .

5) CWE PO , is no different exam But it being based on Relative scoring and standardization method , thus there is an artificial higher score than one gets in  SBI PO exam , But essentially these are similar scores, Don't panick.

6) The Time Management Scheme provided below , is justified by these score results, as it gives minimum time for scoring sections like GK , Computer,English but at the same time The Time Management Scheme Does Not Lower their Value  rather gives Full Importance to them as required in a PO exam and asks you to read and attempt all 50 questions in these sections (if u know) pushing your limits. Infact ,The Time Managment Scheme below tries to maximise your scores in minimum possible time.

The logical Reasoning and Quantitative Aptitude Sections have their limitations and need time of solving.

PS: Do Not target Cut-Offs of 24 marks for CWE PO. Remember these were Relative/Standardized cut-offs and not the actual cut-offs. Actual Cut-offs will be lower. NO SECTIONS SHOULD BE LEFT UNATTEMPTED/UNREAD , THIS WILL LEAD TO FAILURE....

C.W.E P.O Cracked !! Part-1 ( Common Written Exam CWE P.O Exam Attemptation Scheme & Time Management)

So, as the June'2012 , CWE P.O Exam is approaching, I wanted to share an 'Attemptation Scheme' or Time Management , designed and developed by me and Tested on me (Scored 160 TWSS in CWE PO Sept 2011).

Also, this is in response to so called experts/ Intelligent people because they are so irritating and dumb because whenever one asks them about HOW TO ATTEMPT....They reply vaguely or may  just say , give your best shot, .....like if they won't say this... one may not give his best in exam.

So, here is a 'SPECIFIC' TIME MANAGEMENT SCHEME I ASK YOU TO FOLLOW AND YOU CAN BE *SUCCESSFULL IN CRACKING CWE P.O AM SURE.(*conditions apply at the bottom of article.)

First: The CWE P.O Exam Pattern

Now :PRESENTING  TIME MANAGEMENT PATTERN FOR CWE P.O By :Puchhlo.blogspot.com

Now , I don't claim this is the Best Scheme of Time Management. But following this pattern i have succeeded , so I am sharing this Scheme.
So, If you practice Old Exam Papers , using this pattern, am sure you will perform better.

Conditions /Assumptions:
1) You are a serious candidate and have the capacity and knowledge of solving the questions..This pattern will not help incase you are fresher and a casual attempter.

2) Your English , GK, Computer are above average..Because it is very important that you perform in these sections and if exam is tough these sections make all the difference.

3) You have faith in this pattern.Because, if you are attempting the exam with this or any other pattern , then you follow it till the end and must not abandon it mid-way. It won't serve any purpose.

4) English is to attempted with Comprehensions/ passage as last attempts.Start English section from last to front.

5) You cannot relax even 5minutes during the course of exam.You have to be in exam mode from starting till the end.

6) Descriptive Sections , after the Objective exam , should be given Full Respect and effort and remember exam does not end after 150 minutes objective....... descriptive section is also a part of your exam , and you must perform well.

7) 1st Half is for clearing Sectional  Cut-offs based on previous and recent cut-offs. Eg: 24 marks cut-off (in CWE - Sept2011 ) are relative and not absolute..ie : you actually don't need to score exact 24 to clear sectional but was marked based on overall performance of all candidates. So, most of cut-offs will be cleared in all sections in this exam pattern.


FINAL RULE FOR SUCCESS:   As Every serious candidate knows P.O Exam is all about TIME MANAGEMENT and not only Knowledge Testing and reason for failure is usually Fuilure in Time Management only.

Following this Time Management Pattern , one will be Tempted to Digress from given Time Divisions and Solve more questions , But YOU MUST NOT GIVE INTO THIS TEMPTATION AND FOLLOW THE DECIDED TIME DIVISIONS AS CLOSELY AS POSSIBLE.

Rhythm will be broken...But it must be done in order to make sure that we must clear Sectional Cut-offs.

This Time Division assumes 100% solving  capability , But You Will Not be able to solve all the Questions..So, you need not panick on the Attempted Questions unless they are very low..So, questions attempted may change but TIME DIVISIONS must be followed.
You Success you depend on how closely you follow these TIME DIVISIONS.

Gudluck!!

About the Author: The author has Scored 160 TWSS in CWE PO Sept '2011. Had Cleared SBI PO 2011-12 sectional cut-offs.
 Has Cleared SBI & Associate PO 2011-12 and is selected as P.O in State Bank Patiala.